People are being encouraged to “aim for progress, not perfection” in their New Year’s resolutions, with national mental health charity Turn2Me noting that many people set unrealistic resolutions for themselves, which often leads to disappointment and a feeling of failure.
The charity say that setting realistic goals is more achievable and also stated that starting something new, instead of giving something up, can be a healthier goal.
“Everyone associates New Year’s with resolutions, such as losing lots of weight or exercising every day,” Fiona O’Malley, CEO of Turn2Me, said. “Instead of setting lots of unrealistic New Year’s resolutions, which often lead to disappointment if they can’t be maintained, setting a smaller number of realistic goals can be more achievable.”
“For example, if you rarely exercise and your New Year’s resolution is to go to the gym every day, this might not be realistic. Instead, commit to going twice or three times a week. Goals that aren’t realistic can lead to feelings of disappointment and failure. This feeling of failure can deter people from setting future goals,” she said.
NEW BEGINNINGS
Fiona said starting something new, instead of giving something up, can work better for some people.
“Consider joining a part-time course, signing up for an art, writing or hiking group, joining a book club or a drama society. New Year’s is a good time for new beginnings. It doesn’t have to mean detoxes, rigid diets or complete lifestyle changes. Don’t set yourself up for failure. Aim for progress, not perfection!”
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SUPPORT
Turn2Me is running free support groups on anxiety, depression, grief, and relationship issues for anyone struggling with their mental health in 2024. Turn2Me also offers free one-to-one counselling sessions and a free ‘Thought Catcher’ mood diary. To sign up for any of these free mental health services, go to Turn2Me.ie
